Quick Quote

“A pretty good judge of character, maybe I mistaked a few
Cut some people off, but had no choice, it’s what they made me do
Why would you take advantage when it’s something I’d have gave to you?
And in the long run, it doesn’t take from me, it takes from you
You’ll probably tell me I’m a fucked up nigga
You got it wrong, I just won’t be fucked up with you
Which forces me get distant, and I never want to act a way with you
But passion and desire never blends with lackadaisical
No longer enable you, that’s no longer favorable”-Joe Buddens:” Castles”

Phil-Osphy 101: “Decisions”

“People are quicker to assume as opposed to learning, “The Why” behind a decision or certain movements one makes. What they fail to realize is, outside of a few there is no one you really owe an explanation to. Unless they’re are inquiring, because they want to show support then let them in on the though process. If it to ridicule you, then keep it moving”

Phil-Osphy 101 “Dreams”

“Making your dreams come true is the hardest, most rewarding thing you’ll do in your life…. Honestly everyone doesn’t it have it in them to stay the long course… Takes dedication… Determination…. Discipline… And most importantly Sacrifice…. Like the old gatorade ad used to say, “Is it in you?” – Can I Talk My Shit (Phillip Wilds Jr.)

Most Known Unknown

The Things We Don’t Say!!!!!

So with Valentine’s Day 2012 wrapped up, noticed there are a lot of unhappy women that tend to say fuck Valentine’s Day. It really should be more like ,”Fuck every relationship decision you have made until now. Most will say they do not hate it, just what it represents as an excuse*(Stop me if you have never heard that before)*. Since I’m such a helpful guy, let me put you lonely females on to some game so that next year you will not repeat the same mistakes that lead you to hate February 14th.

Learn How To Cook:

If you do not have this issue, please disregard. If you have not acquired domestic skills, such as cooking you will never keep a man. I’m not saying take it back to the 50’s, for women to stay home, but nobody wants to eat out all the time. Also, have you never heard the saying ,” The key to a man’s heart is through his stomach?”. This has not changed. Knowing how to take care of a home does not inhibit your independence.

No Party Rocking:

Remember that Eddie Murphy song “Party All The Time?” Ladies no man wants to date a woman who is always in the club. Occasionally is cool, but if your purpose in life is knowing what spot is jumping, especially after a certain age, the sweetie your lost. Relationships take time to develop, clubbing takes time away from that. Once again, there is nothing wrong with partying and having a good time. There is something wrong with excessive partying. If you have a young child/children, shouldn’t your ass be home? No decent man is going to respect you sacrificing being there with your children at night to go shake your ass.

Dress for Success:

Think about getting a man like a job interview. If you don’t dress the part how can u get the job u want. They say do not judge a book by its cover, but ladies if your book has on some skimpy shit we aren’t trying to read past fucking. Also, if your on a social website and all the pictures are of you half dressed , poking your ass out, don’t be offended when the message your receive on a daily basis is, “So when we fucking?” Present yourself classier and you’ll be respected with class.

Power of Pussy:

Value your own Vag. That’s not saying you can’t give it up, everything has a time and place. Pick the right time. Every dude you meet is not going to put worth in your Vag, especially of you do not yourself. Of course no one want to wait forever for sex, but to take that consideration for yourself, we men remember that kind of thing.

Remember The Time:

Ladies, don’t place importance on nonsense like remember certain dates. A man is not gonna remember when you first blinked your eye at him. At the end of the day non of that stuff matters. It sweets if he or you does remember, but it is not be all and end of all of things.

Get Past The Past:

Ladies, if you are carrying the scars of a previous relationship into a new one then your doomed to fail. Unfortunately, when you put yourself out there is a chance you can get hurt. Now, if the person you are with isn’t the one that hurt you. Why should he pay for his predecessor’s mistake? Fix yourself then get with somebody.

Battle Worth Fighting:

Ladies, fighting is cool but pick and choose your battles. Everything isn’t worth a fight. Your job is to be his companion. Not his mother. Nobody wants to be nagged. Don’t feel a certain way and not say it. Men can’t read minds. Contrary to what you may believe.

Act Like A Lady:

A man doesn’t want a woman that speaks worse than he does.,”Yo my nigga what’s good” Who’s going to take that kind of speech seriously? If you hold yourself to a certain standard then he will respect that, but that don’t mean you gotta be stuck up with your shit. We want someone we can take in public, that has some damn etiquette.

Behind Closed Doors:

Never ever let anyone into your business. your relationship is your relationship. An outside entity can destroy your relationship faster than the ones in the relationship. Don’t let people in your business good or bad. Keep your shit in house.

It Nigga Syndrome Revisted

Ladies, how do expect to have a relationship with somebody that ain’t shit morally. They seem to have it together financially, can get you into V.I.P. in the club, but treats you like shit. Start looking for a better quality of man. By better quality I’m not talking about a nigga that is just gonna trick on you. I’m talking about quality of character. Also, stop choosing dudes that only want you to come to see once the sun goes down. If he has 12 kids and don’t take care of em.. 1) why would u want a nigga like that 2) don’t get knocked up… You are not that special. Think higher of yourself. Find someone that could best for you.

Good pussy alone will never keep a man. What else of substance can you bring to the table?Ladies, finally don’t be saying you don’t care about Valentine’s day, because your a fucking liar. If you had somebody worth it to your ass would care. Follow my lead and you’ll never be lonely again ladies.

In My Mind Series: Christina Milian Feat. Ja Rule-“Get Away”

Can We Get Away????

This song got lost during Ja Rule’s platinum run. Def Jam at the time was setting up Christina Milian to be the next big pop star. For some reason she never appealed to listeners. Aside for a modest hit, “Dip It Low”, she’s had a rather less then mediocre career. Ja Rule had become one of the biggest music stars during this time. His career was never recovered after 50 Cent’s rise to popularity. Say what you want about the man, but there is no denying the quality of music he put out during his run. He is now more known to this generation as the guy who’s career 50 Cent derailed as a opposed to an artist who’s music dominated the charts at one point. She is more known now for who she has been involved with (Nick Cannon, Dre from Cool & Dre, & The Dream) as opposed to her talents as a dual threat(actress & singer). I now take you back to a time when both artists showed nothing but promise with a great song.

Get Away

In My Mind Series: Another Bad Creation: My World

I’m Only A Kid!!!!!!

I have said this before in previous posts, but it remains true. Some songs just resonate with you more then others. When I was a kid this song said everything I wanted to say. How many of us really felt like adults took our concerns seriously? I think we adults (especially figures of authority), tend to forget what it was like for us as children. We get so caught up in our own worlds, we forget they have their own. I wanted to revisit that time for me with a song that meant so much.

In My World

*Shout out to “The Box” version of the video. I tried to find a clearer version*

Realm Of Darkness

The Darkness!!!!

The silence of the night covers me…. Darkness has taken it’s toll… The black hole, that which is me absorbs everything around my atmosphere…. A void of nothingness that can not be filled… No matter how much is tried… Can not be filled… Something inside eats at me… Consumes my very being… Keeps me in the realm of darkness…. Keeps me from the light….. Everyday a part of me is taken away…. I lose more of myself…

Something keeps me going…. Something wakes me up everyday….. Tries to get through to me…. That’s why…. I force myself to see… Force myself to dream…. Force myself to believe…. Force myself to be… What I am… What I am… What I am………

*Written by me in 2001*

Thoughts of A….

Thoughts of A Young Black Man

The thoughts of a young black man…. Are the thoughts of the past, present, and future….. The thoughts of the slave, the cry of freedom are imbedded in him….. The thoughts of a nation of color lost, losing their culture are imbedded in him…. The thoughts of generations to come are imbedded in him….The past, present, and future are but forever linked…, all imbedded in this young black man…….

*Written by me in 2001*

In My Mind Series: Prince & The Revolution: The Beautiful Ones

It’s On My Mind!!!!!!

This song was on the Purple Rain Soundtrack. If you remember the movie, Appollonia kept going between Prince and Morris Day of “The Time”. This song basically describes that conflict. Prince’s vast catalogue leaves great songs like this one in a forgotten spectrum of the mind. That is probably more of a tribute to his musical genius more then anything. Mariah Carey along with Dru Hill covered the song for her Butterfly album. I’ve found both versions of the song

Prince & The Revolution

Mariah Carey ft Dru Hill

In My Mind Series: Groove Theory-“Tell Me”

It’s On My Mind!!!!!!

Ever hear a song in your mind play repeatedly? It almost torments your thoughts, with a sweet melody. You try to sing it…. You try to hum it, just to get it out of your system. I had an epiphany. Why not blog whatever song starts to come to mind…. With that said, so begins “The In My Mind” Series!!!!!!!!