Wearing the 45

Posted in Life Shit, Random Shit on February 9, 2017 by canitalkmyshit

Nothing else to say….I’ll be catching up with you all soon!!!!!! CAN I TALK MY SHIT: The Return….. 

Can I Talk My Shit Again??

Posted in Inspirational Shit, Inspired Shit, Personal Shit, Random Shit with tags , , , , on October 18, 2014 by canitalkmyshit

Allow Me To Reintroduce Myself

I sit here amazed about how I have not blogged on here in so long. Almost like the toy you wanted so bad as a kid, only to drop it after a few games. I might have wrote this piece about 50 million times in my head. I must have drafted this a billion more times after that.

When people ask me about this blog and why I have not updated it in so long, I tend to come up with an excuse. It went from ,”Oh I’m going to get back on it.” To the more elaborate,” My internet don’t work in my area, so I have to fly to the moon to update my site.” When all the while I have been just too lazy to put the time and effort into this.

One thing I pride myself with this blog in my own authenticity when writing. I use my own thoughts and experiences to convey my overall message. I always feel like, if I can not give people that read this site the best of me I might as well not put forth a bullshit effort.

It is a challenge to find the inspiration or even material to write about. That is the god’s honest truth. One thing i have come to realize is, my life has always been all the inspiration I needed. With all that said, “I’m baaaaaaaack succccckkaaaaaaas”

Just Do It

Posted in Random Shit on March 17, 2014 by canitalkmyshit


Quick Quote

Posted in In My Mind, Music Shit, Personal Shit, Random Shit with tags , , , , , on August 2, 2013 by canitalkmyshit

“A pretty good judge of character, maybe I mistaked a few
Cut some people off, but had no choice, it’s what they made me do
Why would you take advantage when it’s something I’d have gave to you?
And in the long run, it doesn’t take from me, it takes from you
You’ll probably tell me I’m a fucked up nigga
You got it wrong, I just won’t be fucked up with you
Which forces me get distant, and I never want to act a way with you
But passion and desire never blends with lackadaisical
No longer enable you, that’s no longer favorable”-Joe Buddens:” Castles”

Phil-Osphy 101: “Decisions”

Posted in In My Mind, Life Shit, Phil-Osphy with tags , , , on September 11, 2012 by canitalkmyshit

“People are quicker to assume as opposed to learning, “The Why” behind a decision or certain movements one makes. What they fail to realize is, outside of a few there is no one you really owe an explanation to. Unless they’re are inquiring, because they want to show support then let them in on the though process. If it to ridicule you, then keep it moving”

Phil-Osphy 101 “Dreams”

Posted in In My Mind, Life Shit, Phil-Osphy with tags , , , on September 5, 2012 by canitalkmyshit

“Making your dreams come true is the hardest, most rewarding thing you’ll do in your life…. Honestly everyone doesn’t it have it in them to stay the long course… Takes dedication… Determination…. Discipline… And most importantly Sacrifice…. Like the old gatorade ad used to say, “Is it in you?” – Can I Talk My Shit (Phillip Wilds Jr.)

Quick thought

Posted in Random Shit on August 6, 2012 by canitalkmyshit

Unfortunately we live in a time of over indulgence, sensationalism, and just plain ole’ stupidity. The next generation sees this, only to emulate.

One day I was on a Social Networking site, I randomly come across a picture. There was a man say my father’s age. His pose in the picture? He’s throwing up gang signs. Standing next to him? A young man around my age. Guess what how he’s posing? Next to him, a young kid around one of youngest sister’s ages, down to children the ages of my own. Guess what they are doing in their pictures? There’s a point to all this. They can have better but are we showing them better?

We grow with the mantra ,”I want my children to grow up better than I did”. Materialistically speaking is what we most referred to when making that statement. For example, my mother was a single parent. I have five sisters. So that meant I could not have all the hottest items when I wanted them, because realistically she could not afford to get them for me. When she she could she laced me from head to toe. So in turn I made that proclamation.

One thing I will say about my mother, the whole time I wondered why or what I did not have, she made me see and value what I did have. The type of things a price tag can not be placed on. She was in the process of building a better person. She knew something about the world that I could not grasp at the time. Between her, my grandmother and Professor Kenneth Peay (R.I.P), I had people in my corner invested themselves in me as a person.

The point of all this rambling is we have to think more about the generation behind us. They have enough negative visuals, whether it comes from entertainment or the kid down the block, without us adults adding to it. Setting a good example does not impede on a good time.

I myself am entering a stage in my own life where my children are noticing everything I do. So now when I do things I have to think about how it affects them. Even if I did not have children there is some child watching me somewhere wondering how I and why I do things. I think we children of the 80’s are becoming more hesitant to to take on that mentor role, because that means your youth is ending. We have to get in the business of building better people.

But then again, maybe I shouldn’t act like an old man right?