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Dear 20’s

Posted in Life Shit, Personal Shit with tags , , on March 9, 2012 by canitalkmyshit

Going Out With A Bang!!!!


Dear 20’s,
I realize our time together is coming to an end. I just wanted to say a few things to you before we part forever. I know your busy with those who are still under your umbrella, but please hear me out for a second. By the time you receive this letter I may have already left your side. Hopefully, I can get these thoughts to you before hand.

When we first met March 12,2002, I had no idea what you had planned for me. Truth be told, I was just excited at the chance of meeting you. I was a know it all who knew nothing about life. You knocked me on my ass right away. “My homie 19 would have never done that to me,” I thought. I did not know that was your way of preparing me for the changes that would come during our time together.

Somehow you knew it would take more than the number of my age to make me a man. I can honestly say I’m leaving you better than when we met. Just look at me. I have changed so much. It was all thanks to you.

During our time together I have gone through the most changes I could possibly go through. I met the woman who I would ultimately decide to share my life with. Now that I think of it, she was with u also. I became father. I have lost . Through everything good or bad I leave stronger. I became a man. I became an adult.

Why do things have to change? Why can’t I just stay stuck in this period with you forever? You knew better than me that our time together has to be for this period. It just feels like it all went away so fast. I’ve been blessed to enter and leave you 20’s with the same team I came to you with. Even we have all changed. Be good to my 201st Brethren while they are still with you, since I won’t be around you guys in that capacity anymore. I’ll be there to greet them at the next decades door.

This is is our last weekend together. March 12,2012, I meet the number that’s going to keep me for the next decade. It’s been fun while it lasted. We’ll see each other again. You still have my family and friends. So I’ll peek on you guys from time to time. Not to mention your going to meet my children on your own specific journeys together. Oh, but as for us we’ll link up again October 23,2028.  Until then I bid you farewell, but this weekend we’re going to do it like we used to.  In honor us!!!!!

Thanks For The Memories,

Phillip Wilds Jr.(Can I Talk My Shit?)


Saving Time

Posted in Inspired Shit, Life Shit, Personal Shit, Random Shit with tags , , , , , , on February 1, 2012 by canitalkmyshit

Tick Tock Tick Tock

Time changes….  It changes you… It changes the people around you…  Time can be viewed as an enemy,  stealing away precious seconds from our youth.  Wanting to stay stuck in a moment of our lives,  we hang on to things that remind us of days gone by.  While we want the wonder years to remain,  the clock keeps moving.  Waste enough time,  you will look yourself in the mirror and wonder where did it all go.  As I log in my hours on life’s clock, hopefully I continue to gain wisdom that can be passed down to my children.  Things that they can pass down to their children and so forth.  That is the key to immortality.  In the end your legacy stays on this earth long after you have parted ways with it.  How we have decided to spend our time define who we are…. Always remember, your actions can possibly outlast  any clocks TICK… TOCK…. TICK… TOCK…

Hello 2K12

Posted in Life Shit, Random Shit with tags , , , on January 3, 2012 by canitalkmyshit

Welcome To The New Year

Another year has come and gone. The year 2011 had one common theme for me. Change!!!! I experienced professional change. I experienced relationship change. I experienced personal change. My life as with anyone else’s has gone through its own set of trials and tribulations. I fall down, just so I can get right back up.

No matter how old I get, there’s always more that I can learn. That’s how you grow as a person, realizing that you do not have all the answers. As long as your searching for them, you can measure your growth that way.

This year I end my 20’s to enter my 30’s. A new decade, a new me but with a twist of the old. We can call it Phil 3.0. Maybe, Phil: Act III. My evolution as a human being, a man, a father, and husband will be on display in all of its glory. I thank God for every blessing I have and have yet to receive. I hope if I have changed over the years, the ones I love understand the person I am today. They are the building blocks of who I am also.

With this new year my new theme I’ll carry will be…. Inspiration…… I hope everyone finds theirs

“Get a dream. Hold on to it and shoot for the sky”- Dusty Rhodes